For those of you that are closet socialites there are easy ways to expand your social network. Personally, I don't think it is about numbers or associations but rather the quality of people you meet. I would rather be associated with a small network as long as their is a high value in companionship vs. large network with very little value in companionship.
With that said, recently I got online and joined a local meet up group interested in outdoor activities, which I enjoy. They are the
TRREC of Greenville, NC. The members all have their "specialties" which isn't to mention their professions. They (and me) hike, backpack, kayak, scuba, exercise, and are involved in local conservation movements. Their mission and objective aligns directly with my own so it was a given that I would be attracted to them. And let me tell you not only did our desire to be outdoors align, but from what I learned they had similar backgrounds as my own. It makes sense. So, if you are interested in meeting new people then find an online social network with similar interests. Odds are they will have similar backgrounds and there will be a connection.
Now I would like to add my limited experience with
couchsurfing. No, I have not couchsurfed. No, I haven't hosted couchsurfers. I would do either one of those if it was in my control. I am a member, and I just found out my roommate is as well. He couchsurfed all over Oregon, NC, and a few other places. He talked about his experiences and they were all wonderful. What better way to go to a foreign place and almost instantly have someone that opens their doors to you. Good food, great conversations, and an insider about the area. Italo, my roommate, is one of those guys you meet and almost instantly feel comfortable with and know that you can trust him. I can see how he has good feedback. It just means that there are probably other Italos out there couchsurfing whom I would invite in to my home.
An odd coincidence
I was at a coffee shop the other day just surfing online before my meet-up meeting with TRREC. My couchsurfing home page was up and I was also looking at other parts of the world I would like to travel to. As I was on the site a lady sits next to me and her eyes lit up, "Oh your a couchsurfer too?" I am not yet, but we talked for a good hour about it. She was probably in her mid 50's and just got back from northern Israel and couchsurfed there for several weeks. Her and I too talked about the value and mission in couchsurfing. Her intentions were both to travel and also I think to be immersed in other cultures. A non-commercialized touristy feel. I agree, when I travel I want to experience it all. Their religion, customs, rituals, landmarks, language, and the spots that the locals visit not all the tourists. Total immersion. From what I understand that is what couchsurfing offers. It is a self regulation community across the globe where people host "guests" and show them their community. Naturally, everyones intentions or experience with couchsurfing is unique. However, from several people I have heard the same thing. "Actually, a friend of mine couchsurfed [to such and such a place] and had such a great time." Now, I want to be that friend that couchsurfed and is telling others about my experience.